Wife

Yesterday,

I had a pretty interesting conversation with a friend's wife. First i was asking them on how do u discipline your kids, whom are 1 yr apart like mine. The answer is, u can't. :(

It's cos they are too close, jealousy happens and the elder one feels inferior to the younger one. Hairi is becoming just that.

I was told that Hairi bullied Aira. I have personally seen him pushed his sister at the stomach. Aira was so angry she banged her head on the sofa, out of frustration. That day, I was told Hairi pushed Aira's head down tot he ground 3 times. Poked her eye. Refused to share toys. Like WHOA!

and the easiest thing for me to do is scream at him. Beat his hand. But constant hand beating can make a child hard-hearted. Do u believe?

I blamed myself for it. I have been too pre-occupied with my own nonsense, and my own extra-income sideline to suffice me as my boss tak-boleh-harap, tht i feel i have neglected my duties as a mother. and a wife.

Which leads to my next topic. Wife.

Im just gonna be very short on this. How many of us (wives) are guilty of not "giving" the husbands?

Come on, raise your hands. We read it in the books, though we never thought we ever used them eh? Headache, extended period, pretending to sleep, malas, or just a flat "no."

This friend of mine. Nope. Never a No. Never escape. Never escaped.

I salute her, for being a home-maker, the best mother, the best-willing wife, and the best financial manager for her husband.

Hidir, you must be so proud of your wife. Cos i am.

HFMD

After 2 weeks of pre-school, my son hasbeen contracted with HFMD.

heh. what luck.

He refuses to eat. or drink. And he wails.

Speak of wailing, ever since he started school, he has been such a screamer. Attention-seeking son of a brat screaming and wailing and bullying his sister. And his sister has the knack to start screaming too when she is bullied. and my patience has flown out of the window.

The cons of having babies too close a gap.

"Commercial Break"

Her cuteness brings back my patience. But how to deal with a growing boy who is temperemental?

I vae to get back on track on blogging. It's like im too busy with Facebook, i forgot tht i have a diary to update too, for the reflections on my life.

My life has been pretty busy lately.

Do you believe life starts at 30? I now do.

On a side note, lets all pray for Japan. May they get through this painful ordeal as soon as possible.

And on another side note, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuMLtycp_0I

Dumb or not, u decide.

It has been too long

Isn't it?



Now that i have my fat ass sitting in front of my damn old computer, yes computer not laptop, in a new (someone else's) office with a new colleague, i guess blogging would be just another pretense that im working. Typing away means im working.....right?



Initially this blog is suppose to be my kinda diary u know? The hype about being a newly married couple. All love and sex and BAM! Then all abt the first born....



And so i pity my 2nd born for not getting as much hype like the first.



My second born. Aira. yes her name is just Aira. Aira binte Muhd Fazli. Short name u say? Deal with it.


2010.


Why didnt i blog in 2010? A whole year of celebrating the months of my new 2nd born. Nothing abt her at all. AT ALL! (Slap my face!)


cos 2010 was a difficult year. for me. for us.


New baby. New home. New Loans. New Pay Cut. Trying out new Jobs. New way to handle rejections. New.


Nothing new with the amount in the bank statements though.

And not forgetting, new fat face, new fat hips, new fat legs. I plead to the Almighty my husband still lusts for me. Even tho my libido has zero-ed down.

Will there be a anything new abt my blog?

Probably.

But it still remains the same. it's still gonna be about, Diana & Fazli.

Hello readers.

Welcome back, new Me.

Psst....

Pssst....

I am on my way back in this blog.....

No one cares, i know....

I just psst-ed at myself.....

Gotta make myself free to write abt our new life with our new member....

My daughter AIRA!

tbc.......

Project: Home. Paused.

Breathe.

It has been a hectic last week of Nov.

The moving, the cleaning, the moving again.

The house is empty. Macam rumah bujang lah katakan. No furniture, nothing but i so love our walls. A bit of dirt already and i cannot angkat.

Anyways, no pics uploaded yet of the new interior until we do have some furniture. Some lah at least.

All these have been happening when im very sarat. Yes. Very very sarat. Im due on 15th Dec. Today i went for my check-up. Weekly check. And i lost 1kg in 1 week. According to Doc, its not suppose to be good and if i come back next week with another kg lost, he will induce me. heh.

Other than that, looks like baby is at a healthy weight of 3.1kg (plus placenta i think) and she looks like she is comfortable inside. Like her brother. Refuse to come out even when the date is due.

And as for my firstborn, he has been very clingy. Maybe he knows tht he wont have our full attention once his sis is out. So he constantly clings on to me, asked to be breast-fed, even if he doesnt wanna sleep, and just wants to be carried. Hairi ....... Hairi.....

So, this is the beginning of our newest chapter.

New home.

New baby.

And a beginning of a new Diana. The Circus Juggler.

Juggle time between hubby, 2 babies, home management, work management...all within 18 hrs in a day. Maybe a full 24 since we all know newborns wake frequently at night to be fed.

DIE!

Ayang, i takyah masak, you beli bungkus eh? Love you.

Project:Home Part 2

The end of tht crappy interior. The beginning of something new....

Very very dusty home. After all that hacking. And yes, the big FAT ME!

Nothing much 'cept for a lot of constuction stuffs.

But we are so glad that we got rid of the tiles in the kitchen and toilets and living room floor.

More to update in our next entry.

Question: Why are electricians expensive?

Tsk.

On a separate note, my baby is turning 1 soon! oh my god, where did all the time go to?