Wife

Yesterday,

I had a pretty interesting conversation with a friend's wife. First i was asking them on how do u discipline your kids, whom are 1 yr apart like mine. The answer is, u can't. :(

It's cos they are too close, jealousy happens and the elder one feels inferior to the younger one. Hairi is becoming just that.

I was told that Hairi bullied Aira. I have personally seen him pushed his sister at the stomach. Aira was so angry she banged her head on the sofa, out of frustration. That day, I was told Hairi pushed Aira's head down tot he ground 3 times. Poked her eye. Refused to share toys. Like WHOA!

and the easiest thing for me to do is scream at him. Beat his hand. But constant hand beating can make a child hard-hearted. Do u believe?

I blamed myself for it. I have been too pre-occupied with my own nonsense, and my own extra-income sideline to suffice me as my boss tak-boleh-harap, tht i feel i have neglected my duties as a mother. and a wife.

Which leads to my next topic. Wife.

Im just gonna be very short on this. How many of us (wives) are guilty of not "giving" the husbands?

Come on, raise your hands. We read it in the books, though we never thought we ever used them eh? Headache, extended period, pretending to sleep, malas, or just a flat "no."

This friend of mine. Nope. Never a No. Never escape. Never escaped.

I salute her, for being a home-maker, the best mother, the best-willing wife, and the best financial manager for her husband.

Hidir, you must be so proud of your wife. Cos i am.

HFMD

After 2 weeks of pre-school, my son hasbeen contracted with HFMD.

heh. what luck.

He refuses to eat. or drink. And he wails.

Speak of wailing, ever since he started school, he has been such a screamer. Attention-seeking son of a brat screaming and wailing and bullying his sister. And his sister has the knack to start screaming too when she is bullied. and my patience has flown out of the window.

The cons of having babies too close a gap.

"Commercial Break"

Her cuteness brings back my patience. But how to deal with a growing boy who is temperemental?

I vae to get back on track on blogging. It's like im too busy with Facebook, i forgot tht i have a diary to update too, for the reflections on my life.

My life has been pretty busy lately.

Do you believe life starts at 30? I now do.

On a side note, lets all pray for Japan. May they get through this painful ordeal as soon as possible.

And on another side note, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuMLtycp_0I

Dumb or not, u decide.