About Differences

About Differences.....

Between the young and the old. The generation Gap. The differences.

Who may have thought that it doesnt come as easy as it looks.

The Wedding Planning.

The budgeting that we did, is of little use now. The major part of the listed items mainly for the guests comfort, are a little over the borderline, but we nodded in agreement to a go-show, for choices made that are not ours. The difference in taste (and price) we learnt to accept.


And so we thought with the major items checked, we would like to add a touch of us to none other than our own wedding; a mini entertainment, mainly to entertain us, and of course our important guests. Some music with an actual person singing, some form of hot art that i like, and another form of martial art tht he loves....

But alas.

It will not be so. It shall not be to what we want. It shall not be to what we like.

There will be absolutely no music with anyone singing. And no, its not karaoke if you're thinking it.

And i have been misunderstood by them. Its not what I want. Its what WE want.

But they don't like it. Case closed.


.........

On a personal note;

I feel quite upset.

I feel that its our wedding and i do have the right to make as how we like it. I feel we can settle our indifferences in a different manner. I feel that this can be talked out instead of just saying NO. It hurts me. It hurts my husband too. Its our day. We do not have tht culture of renewing the nuptials or wedding vows. We are gonna do this once. Just once.

Sigh.

Oh well.

Anyhows, my feeling towards them is no different. I still love them.

But i only look forward to our new home now.