Happy 2 Months Anniversay

Happy 2 Months Anniversary

I feel the need to tell the story about us. Again. Cos i think its essential. Cos maybe one day, our children may read this and will go..."Wow....."

You see, im not too sure what Allah has in store for us. But we realised, God does not want us to waste time.

And wasting time we didnt. And that too, we didnt plan.

Let me just summarise it up. Its stated on the sidebar but i shall elaborate again here;

We knew each other online from 2005. We became bitch-buddies. He is my bitch, just the Male-Version.

We both were attached at that time....We still were buddies, till both of us became Un-Attached. And we were there for each other for our individual sorrows. Still Buddies.

And everything turned round when i met with a freak accident. And when he saw me, he was devastated. And then, he promised me, that he will look after me from then on.

And thats what he did.

We kinda dated soon after my accident in Nov 06. So here goes;

18 Nov 06: 3 weeks after the accident and so-called dating, He asked me to be his GF. Over the phone. How old skool is that! Not forgetting sweet! And we had trouble getting used to each other as lovers, cos like i said, we have always been bitch-buddies!

25 Nov 07: Reservation Ceremony aka "Hantar Tanda". My big mouth suggested that we start saving money together "just in case". And we started a joint account in July/Aug 07. On this date, we thought that its just gonna be a reservation or to some "engaged". But surprise surprise! On this date, his family suggested that we Nikah earlier than our planned date in July 08. So we only sanding in July. Take note: we were getting used to being GF-BF.

19 Jan 08: Yes. Note the date. Within a month of rushing and planning and shopping, on this day is our history in the making. We were pronounced Husband & Wife. Enough said. Note all the dates and noticed how we didnt waste time?

And so here is the important part of my story.

First i would like to say, Happy 2 months Anniversay of Marriage to US!

And so i went to a GP yesterday evening. With my husband.

After everything this is what my GP said to me;

"Congratulations Diana."

God really has a lot in store for us. And God would not allow us to waste time.

All we can say is, Alhamdullilah.

And the fear of breaking this news to our parents when our customary wedding is still on the way, we can only say, Bismillah.

How about the wedding, now u ask? We can only say, Insya'Allah.

But yes, Diana & Fazli is indeed smiling.

Beautiful 17th March 08

What a Beautiful Morning....



The weekend didnt go that well for us. My first time feeling the awkward atmosphere of the merajukness. I take a deep breath, and tell myself that this is the first and definitely not the last so i have to brave myself and take in with a pinch of salt. I still love them no doubt.



And what a twist in events it turned out for me this morning. For us i mean. To think last month we got overly excited. This month is totally different.



So heck our depressing weekend hubby!;p



What does the pic means?!!

About Differences

About Differences.....

Between the young and the old. The generation Gap. The differences.

Who may have thought that it doesnt come as easy as it looks.

The Wedding Planning.

The budgeting that we did, is of little use now. The major part of the listed items mainly for the guests comfort, are a little over the borderline, but we nodded in agreement to a go-show, for choices made that are not ours. The difference in taste (and price) we learnt to accept.


And so we thought with the major items checked, we would like to add a touch of us to none other than our own wedding; a mini entertainment, mainly to entertain us, and of course our important guests. Some music with an actual person singing, some form of hot art that i like, and another form of martial art tht he loves....

But alas.

It will not be so. It shall not be to what we want. It shall not be to what we like.

There will be absolutely no music with anyone singing. And no, its not karaoke if you're thinking it.

And i have been misunderstood by them. Its not what I want. Its what WE want.

But they don't like it. Case closed.


.........

On a personal note;

I feel quite upset.

I feel that its our wedding and i do have the right to make as how we like it. I feel we can settle our indifferences in a different manner. I feel that this can be talked out instead of just saying NO. It hurts me. It hurts my husband too. Its our day. We do not have tht culture of renewing the nuptials or wedding vows. We are gonna do this once. Just once.

Sigh.

Oh well.

Anyhows, my feeling towards them is no different. I still love them.

But i only look forward to our new home now.