20 May 2008

When DianaFazli Met Baby

When DianaFazli Met Baby

Note: We regretted that we didnt ask for an extra copy of the scan photo. Sigh.

Anyways!

We met our lil being on 16th May 08, for the very first time!

First thing we noticed, Baby's sucking on its thumb, got a big head like Mummy, thin body and boncit which i exclaimed "Like Daddy!"

This lil miracle is stubborn too. It was not in a full lying position for doc to scan it and take measurement properly. And so i was advised to go out and take a walk and drink water.

When i come back 20 mins later, baby was in a sitting down position! Aiyoh, again doc asked me to walk outside the corridor again and finish my bottled water. By tht time my bladder was about to burst!

When finally i was to be scanned again, nope, baby's nearly facing downwards. Notti baby!

Doc has no choice but to take measurements as it is. Kept pressing different parts of my tummy to reposition baby. Asked me to cough and see baby's reaction. At one point dat she pressed, baby was startled and literally jumped! So cute!! Minutes later she was pressing another part of my tummy and it disturbed baby, it started to do kicking motions with it's feet at very fast speed. We were both amazed!! My baby in me is so active this one!

When me met the gynae,he said our baby is at 8 inches and the right length for a 3 month 2 weeks baby. And Baby has a very strong heartbeat too! Alhamdullilah....

Seeing our Baby made us so happy and we look forward for the next scan. Right after, i was down with high fever and cough, which i refuse any medication for baby's sake, and took the au naturel method instead. And i kept teasing my Baby, poking my tummy and asking, " Buat apa tu? Buat apa tu?"....Wondering if it get agitated or will start kicking or just plainly ignore me...

Which the reaction i got was the inability to lie on my back cos baby refused to make me comfortable. As i lay on my back, i feel like vomiting so i have be contented lying on my side instead.

Images of baby's actions and reactions are in our heads all the time now... We both really look forward to meet u again baby, even if its only thru the screen. Very very soon now....

13 May 2008

Plights of Pregnancy

Plights of Pregnancy


I tot i noticed a change in me body.

Hubby reaffirms it.

Yes, the tummy bulges out like a fat person, i may be eating too much. Which i dont think so. But me aunts said, my kulit perut is tebal. Now what the hell tht means?!!

Anyways, yes, i am unable to button my work pants, so i zip it up only halfway and wear a long top to cover it. Smart? i think so. Maybe i should buy some bigger sized clothes soon.

And the thighs! god help me. Thighs has kinda "kembang" u noe. So ugly. But hubby says "that is the last thing tht u should be worrying abt rite now. And don't merapek abt going on diet ok!"

oh well. im fat. so what. I got a baby in me. So its all worth it.

The other plights?

Well, wedding is on the way right? So of cos the worry of not being able to fit into my clothes haunts me every time. The problem is....

My mak andam's husband had just passed on due to a road accident. Poor lady left with her kids on her own. I understand perfectly if she has to cancel on me.

Which she did. This morning. So my worst fears came thru. But what can i do? I pity her, really i do...

And becos our wedding is such a long wait, we forgot abt the printing our wedding invites. Not so smart kan?

Meeting with the card maker last nite was cancelled. So we're meeting her tomoro. We really hope tht this wont affect much for the duration in print.

Right now, i would like to thank my Uncle Sani and Auntie Siti for coming to my rescue on my Andaman. Will be making our way to your place soon! U guys are the best! Oh by the way, do u guys know tht im ehem...? Ada baju boleh muat tak?

Oh and people, i need house agents. Recommendations pls?

16 April 2008

About Vomitting

About Vomiting

I thot it was an easy pregnancy. Considering i don have major morning sickness & what i crave, are easy to cook or buy.

And hubby said, i spoke too soon.

It started with seafood. After eating seafood, my tummy just refused to function. Nothing that goes in, stays in. Until i read the book, and it says tht pregnant mummies should refrain from eating shellfish like mussels n clams. heh. Tks diana for reading too late.

Monday, i had my normal warm Mamil and ate some mangoes. And damn the smell of the combination, out of my stomach is so overwhelming, i vomited more. Oh, did i notice tht red stuff? hmm, i don remember eating any red stuff...?

My breakfast yesterday was banana nut crunch and milk. Nope. Tummy says, no cold food. And so out u go. I don't fancy milk already. Oh again, tht red stuff. I didnt eat nothing red yesterday...? and tht familiar taste....

And today. Dried apricots for snacks. Apricots have a good source of Vit A but the book says, too much Vit A is not good for baby. But what harm can 3 pieces do to me rite?

Nope. Tummy says no to Apricots. Out u go. And again. The red stuff. And for sure. I vomited and i knew tht taste. Yes, i vomited blood.

Being a new expecting mummy, of cos i was scared. But i was assured by some experience mommies, its cos i am dehydrated, and i scraped my throat when i vomit. I believed them. Cos yes, i have since, reduced my liking for plain water. I drink a few sips only each day. It's bad, but i donno how to swallow it.

I guess i have to force myself wit water now. Hubby have been such a great darling. I am sorry baby for all these trouble.

We still have a wedding to think of. Tick Tock Tick Tock, times running....


04 April 2008

About Gas

About Gas...
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Yes. I have a problem. I am abt 6 weeks preggers now? First few weeks was slightly torturous cos i feel nothing but "morning sickness" which occurs the whole day. Thats not bad u think?

I think now is worst! I don have much of the sickness. More recently, i am producing too much gas. It's not that i stuff myself with beans or garlic for that matter. I eat normal, in fact, healthier food now. But i wonder where those damn gas come from.

I cant stop farting. And my farts stink! i mean, whose doesnt right? but mine can kill a pack of rats! My hubby ever smelled it. My friends did too! Now how embarrassing is that?!

Oh well, like the morning sickness, i hope the farting phase will go away soon.

All i know, the thought of havin a little sea-monkey look-alike wriggling in my womb now excites me!!

Hubby u still want me right? Through farts and burps? hee...

19 March 2008

Happy 2 Months Anniversay


Happy 2 Months Anniversary


I feel the need to tell the story about us. Again. Cos i think its essential. Cos maybe one day, our children may read this and will go..."Wow....."


You see, im not too sure what Allah has in store for us. But we realised, God does not want us to waste time.


And wasting time we didnt. And that too, we didnt plan.


Let me just summarise it up. Its stated on the sidebar but i shall elaborate again here;


We knew each other online from 2005. We became bitch-buddies. He is my bitch, just the Male-Version.


We both were attached at that time....We still were buddies, till both of us became Un-Attached. And we were there for each other for our individual sorrows. Still Buddies.


And everything turned round when i met with a freak accident. And when he saw me, he was devastated. And then, he promised me, that he will look after me from then on.


And thats what he did.


We kinda dated soon after my accident in Nov 06. So here goes;


18 Nov 06: 3 weeks after the accident and so-called dating, He asked me to be his GF. Over the phone. How old skool is that! Not forgetting sweet! And we had trouble getting used to each other as lovers, cos like i said, we have always been bitch-buddies!


25 Nov 07: Reservation Ceremony aka "Hantar Tanda". My big mouth suggested that we start saving money together "just in case". And we started a joint account in July/Aug 07. On this date, we thought that its just gonna be a reservation or to some "engaged". But surprise surprise! On this date, his family suggested that we Nikah earlier than our planned date in July 08. So we only sanding in July. Take note: we were getting used to being GF-BF.


19 Jan 08: Yes. Note the date. Within a month of rushing and planning and shopping, on this day is our history in the making. We were pronounced Husband & Wife. Enough said. Note all the dates and noticed how we didnt waste time?


And so here is the important part of my story.


First i would like to say, Happy 2 months Anniversay of Marriage to US!


And so i went to a GP yesterday evening. With my husband.


After everything this is what my GP said to me;


"Congratulations Diana."


God really has a lot in store for us. And God would not allow us to waste time.


All we can say is, Alhamdullilah.


And the fear of breaking this news to our parents when our customary wedding is still on the way, we can only say, Bismillah.


How about the wedding, now u ask? We can only say, Insya'Allah.


But yes, Diana & Fazli is indeed smiling.

17 March 2008

Beautiful 17th March 08

What a Beautiful Morning....



The weekend didnt go that well for us. My first time feeling the awkward atmosphere of the merajukness. I take a deep breath, and tell myself that this is the first and definitely not the last so i have to brave myself and take in with a pinch of salt. I still love them no doubt.



And what a twist in events it turned out for me this morning. For us i mean. To think last month we got overly excited. This month is totally different.



So heck our depressing weekend hubby!;p




What does the pic means?!!



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Welcome to our marriage blog! This is the place where you can find all the information and photos about our big day. And of course, the triumphs of being a married couple too. Fazli and I are both really looking forward to the build up to the celebrations and of course building a life together. This journal shall serve as a reflection upon us in future, and to be a better Husband & Wife. See us make this journey into a beautiful one.....